Publishing soon

The Grandparent Advantage

For you, for your child, and for your grandchildren. Twelve chapters, built on the studies — including the ones that disagree.

The book is being finished now. Join the list below and you will hear the day it is available. Course members receive it free.

The Grandparent Advantage, front cover
What is in it

Three parts, twelve chapters.

  • For you — what the role does to your thinking, your mood and your health, and the point at which help becomes harm.
  • For your child — the four kinds of help, the perception gap that starts most arguments, and how to disagree once and then drop it.
  • For your grandchildren — what a child needs from the one adult not grading them, and how reading, writing and speaking survive the screens.

Every chapter closes the same way: the research in one paragraph, one conversation to have, and one practice for the week.

Want it sooner? The Playbook is finished and available today, and the course includes this book the moment it publishes.

Free, one page

The Grandparent Plan

Six decisions — two for you, two for your child, two for your grandchildren — plus the one conversation that resolves most grandparenting conflict. Fill it in on screen, put a review date ninety days out.

The same list. You will get the free Grandparent Plan now, and the publication notice when the book is ready.